jimmytk421 50 M 1 question Score 0.0	Are there Alternative clubs in Colorado? - 6/23/2001 I've always liked the alternative lifestyle, but i've never found out about any clubs in my area. i was just wondering if there were any in Colorado where i could find out more about the lifestyle... 1 response(s), 0 votes
master_jedidiah 44 C 1 question Score 0.0	halls mentho-lyptus - 6/19/2001 i had made a sub of mine stick a halls mentho-lyptus cough drop up her ass. it created a burrnig sensation thats was hoped for, but my question is, is that safe to keep doing, or will the medican bother something. 0 response(s), 0 votes
sub_babyblue 56 F 1 question Score 0.0	alternative clubs in Boston? - 6/19/2001 I'm new to the Boston area and would like to know where "our kind" of people hang out! 0 response(s), 0 votes
deborah36 62 F 1 question Score 0.0	hard on problem - 6/7/2001 why is it that l am only 39yrs and l cannot get hot and mostly if it is the same person l always see? It is a problem to came and my legs do hurt when they are opened. We have had our relation for the last three years steadily, we really loved eachother but he betrayed our love and l ended with fungus and that put me off. We got back but these days we cannot make love easily, l fell ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
MarkAndrews 51 M 1 question Score 0.0	What do you understand under play or fantasy - 5/23/2001 I am bit at a miss, there are quite a few profiles here that mention play or fantasy . <br> However I always wonder what people understand under that. I think there must be quite a few different meanings or understandings to that. <br> Hope somebody will be able to give me some insight. I searched the web already but did not find anything about it so far. 0 response(s), 0 votes
bcontrld4gd 79 F 1 question Score 0.0	Definitions for alt. lifestyle terms. - 5/19/2001 I'd like to view a list of alt. lifestyle abbreviations and their definitions. At times, people are not "talking" about the same thing and I'd like a relatively comprehensive list of universally, if not nationally, accepted abbreviations and their definitions. For starters, even the most basic will surfice. 0 response(s), 0 votes
CJF69 65,1961 C 1 question Score 0.0	3SOME - 5/9/2001 DO OTHER MEN REALLY GET TURNED WATCHING THERE WIVES MAKE LOVE TO OTHER MEN 1 response(s), 0 votes
toymaster3 66 M 1 question Score 0.0	special dildo? - 5/5/2001 Does anyone know where to obtain a specialized dildo that stimulates the g-spot? It is made of a clear, hard material (similar to lucite), and it is bent in a special shape. It is smooth in texture, and I believe that it costs about $50.00. I cannot find it anywhere. <br> Thank you. 0 response(s), 0 votes
curiousfem32789 62 F 1 question Score 0.0	enema -- how much liquid? - 4/28/2001 How much water would you suggest I use for my first enema? Warm? any additives? How long should I try to hold it? Any advice is welcome. 0 response(s), 0 votes
slutdog7 69 M 6 questions Score 0.0	SWOLLEN BALLS????? - 4/22/2001 THIS past weekend I ran in to some old friends.we had not seen each other in years, we talked about old times.this soon turn to how we use to have sex all the time.I was always the one in the middle, I would do her he would do me. I often would take her strapon while he watched & took pic.They told me they were in town with another couple that they wanted me to meet.Over dinner they told ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
Lola7 58 F 2 questions Score 0.0	Advice Sought on Maintaining D/s Energy - 4/20/2001 I would be very appreciative of any advice I could get from the creative Doms and subs out there. I am in a relatively new (5 month) relationship with my Dom. He is planning on moving in with me which means more time spent together doing the routine tasks of life. My ideal is a 24/7 relationship in which there ARE informal times when we just kinda pal around together but the D/s element ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
slutdog7 69 M 6 questions Score 0.0	BITCH TRAINING 101!!! - 3/18/2001 JUST FOUND OUT my best friend's wife want to be a dog! she loves to be striped & have a collar and leash put on her. she said he don't have the balls to do it.are there any Dom OR DOMMIE that can help me keep this bitch in line? I'm a sub myself but this was 2 good to pass up.the nite I found out I put the collar on & made her strip naked & drive me around town stoping at a fast food place ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
NJGNTLDOM 63 M 1 question Score 0.0	shaving for men - 3/13/2001 I'm looking for tips on shaving my cock & balls. Lately when I shave my balls, they get real itchy after a few days. Not sure why. 0 response(s), 0 votes
marisa14 34 F 1 question Score 0.0	What should I do? - 2/26/2001 I have a relationship with an older man. He looks after me and I also have relationships with some friends to improve my sexuality and to find a boyfriend because he is married and he wants I will be in the same situation. After one year none of my friends want to become my boyfriend. He says I must go on but I dont know whether he is right or he is doing a mistake and I ... 2 response(s), 0 votes
filtnastraw 46 M 1 question Score 0.0	Bottom Seeks Group for Ass-fisting - 2/23/2001 I'm a bottom who loves to stretch his asshole. Have several large toys that I use on myself. I am having a very hasd time finding others in VA or surronding locations that will stetch my ass, especially a group. Can someone help me out? 0 response(s), 0 votes
corcican 57 M 1 question Score 0.0	constricting devices on my cock and balls while stretching my ass... - 2/22/2001 i`ve used all sorts of string and cord around my cock and balls, i`ve even put weights around them.additionaly i`ve used every smooth cock shaped device around the house on my ass .i need new ideas or help... can you help me? 0 response(s), 0 votes
milniece 47 F 1 question Score 0.0	Ass, clit and nipple training 24/7 - 2/8/2001 I would like to hear some ideas how to train my asshole, my genitals and my nipples while I am at work or in public. I just want to feel arosed by plesure and pain all day long. 0 response(s), 3 votes
DsVirgin 67 F 1 question Score 0.0	Valentine's Day: Is a gift appropriate? - 2/6/2001 I hope this doesn't seem too silly. I am a novice sub who, after some discussion and meetings, has just accepted a Dom for training purposes. We will have our first real session in two days, and Valentine's Day will be within a week of that. In a sense, I will have given him my virginity (in D/s). Assuming we have a good experience together, is it appropriate for me to acknowledge him ... 1 response(s), 0 votes
slutdog7 69 M 6 questions Score 0.0	Love getting it in the butt - 1/24/2001 I love to take it in the butt.does that mean I may be Gay or Bi? My girlfriend love to use her strapon on me, and has just started to let some of her friends do the same.This was kool but now they want to bring in a guy or two to join in the fun.Not really into guys but like to submit to her.what should I do, bendover & take it, or just stop at the strapons.I'm really afraid I may like the ... 1 response(s), 2 votes
Wicked1982 53 F 1 question Score 0.0	frigidity? - 1/17/2001 My problem is that whenever something or someone turns me on...I pursue it and when somethiong starts to develop suddenly I get turned off. This has developed over the past five years as a result of some harrowing experiences, but still I would like to be able to be sexual again. I'm an online flirt and no one would believe this is my problem, but it drives me crazy. I used to be a ... 1 response(s), 1 vote
ibhorny247 44 M 1 question Score 0.0	butt plugs...... - 1/13/2001 i enjoy wearing a butt plug. but i can't find one that will stay in, and can be worn all day. most just hurt or fall out. i had one with this little strap, but it was useless. i want to stretch so i can be fisted, any advice or objects, techniques, or other ways to stretch will be appreciated 2 response(s), 0 votes
Aredraven 64 F 1 question Score 0.0	What is OTK? - 12/10/2000 I have heard the term OTK from someone who was into spanking and light bondage. I have no idea what it means. Can someone clue me in? 1 response(s), 1 vote
Lola7 58 F 2 questions Score 0.0	Your Favorite Tricks that Drive Your Dom Crazy - 12/9/2000 I thought it would be fun if subs and even Doms wrote down some of the best/simplest/most creative/ ways a sub has just blown their Dom's mind. I am NOT looking for long involved rituals. I just want quick clever ideas of 5 sentences at the most. Here is one of my favorites as an example. <br> I bought a remote control vibrator at Good Vibrations right before the Dory Ally BDSM ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
2BeInCharge 56 M 1 question Score 0.0	Why can I find black women who are serious about being submissive? - 12/3/2000 I have been looking for a black sub for quite a while now and have not had much success. I've heard from a few but they are not serious about their submissiness. Are there any other resources I can look into besides this one? 0 response(s), 0 votes
Olly_55 67 M 1 question Score 0.0	Fart Smelling - is it so bad. - 11/23/2000 I have a desire to smell ladies farts, really stinky ones - since the age of ten and have for years been frustrated because of it being a Social Taboo. I have found it extremely difficult to get satisfaction, to find a lady who is happy to accomodate my desire. I feel I have exhausted all venues and my options do appear limited as it is a very uncommon desire. Are there ladies who would ... 0 response(s), 1 vote
wanting2byours 51 F 1 question Score 0.0	Deep Throating - 11/20/2000 I was wondering how to train my throat to open up. I want to be able to deep throat my Master w/o gagging. 3 response(s), 4 votes
MSCindy 62 F 1 question Score 0.0	New Domme Starting with a Male sub - 10/28/2000 How do I start training him to be obedient, this is after we have met and have talked about things, what is the first training I should do. Also I would like any information on male milking that anyone has. Thank you 2 response(s), 3 votes
hlm69 55 F 1 question Score 0.0	New sub wanting to learn - 10/24/2000 I am new to BDSM and want to be a sub any Master would be proud to have. I want to learn all there is to know about being a sub but I am not sure how to go about finding a trainer and Master. I am also concerned about the dangers of finding a trainer and Master. Please help. 1 response(s), 0 votes
bearly142 66 M 2 questions Score 0.0	no sucsess in pa. - 10/22/2000 how can i find a dom for me? i been looking for a fem dom in the phila area. how do you meet one?especially one who has the same needs. 0 response(s), 0 votes
mmm..mmm..good 59 M 5 questions Score 0.0	My girl wants to fuck my ass. I am afraid it will produce hemoroids! - 10/6/2000 My girlfriend has a desire to screw my ass. I would love to accomodate her because I get so hot when she tounges and fingers my ass. But I am worried that I might get hemoroids, or my sphincter will get so large I won't be able to control my bowels. So my question is .... Will I get hemoroids? If so Will they be permanent? or If not permanent how to get rid of them.? Also..... Will my ... 3 response(s), 3 votes